Welcome to, the first online matrimonial service, catering exclusively to the Kashmiri community. “How it works” will help you understand how works and how to use it better.

Finding a perfect life partner using is a simple three step process. i.e.
(1)Register (2) Search partner (3) Contact.

The details for each step are given below:
Registration:  As an unregistered visitor to our site, you can perform “quick search” provided on the home page. You will get a list of already registered user(s) along with their basic details like age, religion, profession, marital status, etc. However, their detailed profile especially personal details like full name, photo, contact number, etc. are kept hidden and can be viewed only by registered members.  To avail all the facilities of, your registration is mandatory. 
Registration process on is simple, quick and user friendly. To register, click on the “Register” tab on our home page which will open a registration form. It has four steps/pages i.e. basic details, profile details, partner preferences, verification and payment. You have to fill atleast all the mandatory fields marked by asterisks (*) on each page of the form and click “next” to move to the next page. Most of the fields will have pop up messages to guide/help you. Remember that after your account is formed you can anytime edit your profile details except (1) name (2) parentage (3) D.O.B (4) email address (5) first uploaded photograph. To change any of these you will have to contact our customer care executive.
 A brief explanation of the four steps of registration form:
(1) Basic Details: Here you will be asked to submit your (the person whose profile is being made) basic details. Besides this, you also have to give your email account and password which will be used for login purpose and other online correspondence with you. Remember, for each email account only one profile can be registered.
(2) Profile Details: Here you will need to submit your general profile details concerning your physical appearance i.e. height and weight, dietary habits, educational and job details, income, citizenship and family type. Also, you will be provided space to describe yourself freely in your own words. Here you can also mention things which you personally feel  are important for you but have not be been covered in fields of the form. In short, here you can try best to describe your true personality to other user(s) who read your profile, and thus increase chances of getting responses from desired type of people. Note that only those fields which are marked by an asterisk (*) sign are mandatory, rest are optional.
(3) Partner preferences: Here you will fill the fields which will give other users an idea of your desired partner preferences. These will include fields for preferred age, height, marital status, religion, mother tongue, native place, residence, education level, and professions (you can choose multiple options). Here also you will be provided space to describe your expected partner in your own words. Setting partner preferences also enables Nikah Maker (our match finding tool)  to give you updates about recently logged-in profiles which match your given partner preferences.
(4) Verification and payment:  To ensure that all registered profiles are authentic, we manually perform document verification. For this purpose you are required to send us a photocopy of any one of the following photo ID of yours as identity proof: Voter ID, Passport, Pan card, Driving license, Photo ID card issued by Central/State Government. For your convenience, you may simply use your mobile phone for clicking a photo of your ID or alternatively scan it. But in any case the detail(s) of your photo ID must be visible. We recommend you to keep a soft copy of your ID ready before you begin registration. We want to emphasize that your ID proof will remain confidential with us and will not be shared with any third party. Next you have to click on one of the three registration plans which you want to select. The time duration, express interests/month, discounts on renewal and pricing of each plan will be indicated on it. After this you will proceed for the payment of registration fee. The amount to be paid will depend on the plan you have selected (kindly see registration section of FAQs for plan details).The payment process in highly secure and very convenient. offers multiple methods to make payments: Credit Card, Debit Card, Net Banking, Paypal, NEFT/RTGS, and Cheques/DDs. Our Payment Gateway has 128 Bit SSL encryption, certified by Verisign and Hackersafe.

After successfully submitting the registration form, you will receive a personalized message from us in which you will be provided a unique profile ID e.g. KN259634. You must note it down at your place. It will be useful for login and all future references/queries related to your profile. At this stage you would not be able to login to your account. As soon as you submit the registration form, we will process your profile for validation. During this period you will also be contacted by our customer care executive. Your profile account will be activated within three (3) working days if you have made online payment or within five (5) working days after we receive your cheque/DD, in case of offline payment. In case we reject any registration on some genuine grounds, the payment made will be returned back and the reason for rejection will be messaged to the user.

As soon as your account is activated, you will be informed and your profile will be added to the existing profile pool on  This means, if a registered user will perform a search and you happen to fall in his/her search criteria, your profile will appear in the search results. Now registered users can see your profile in detail, message you and/or express interest in your profile.  Also, you can now login to your account by providing your email/profile ID and password in the login space provided on the home page.

The home page of a profile account has user friendly design so that even a person with little computer/internet knowledge can easily use our service. Your profile picture, profile ID, membership status and “express interests” left per month are shown.  Constant update of recently logged-in matching profiles will be displayed on your wall which will help you to get in contact with active users who fall in your preferred criteria.

The main features available in your account are:
Messages: Here you can send (or reply to) messages to (or from) other registered users.
Interest requests: Here you will be notified about every new “express interest” sent to you by other users.
View profile: Here you can view your profile.
Edit profile: Here you can edit your profile information when required EXCEPT (1) your name (2) your parentage (3) your D.O.B (4) your email address (5) your first uploaded photo.To change any of these you will have to contact our customer care executive. Here you can upload two more photos of your choice which you can change anytime. Also you can change your partner preferences here.
Search partner:  Here you can perform search for partner from the profile pool available. There are three modes of search (1) Quick search (2) Advanced search (3) Search by ID. These will be explained later.
Photo setting: By default the profile photos of males are visible to registered users but photos of females are not visible to all registered users but only to those who have accepted their “express interest” request or to those whose “express interest” request they have accepted. However, if anyone wants to change the visibility status of their photos, they can go to “photo setting” and make the changes.
Accepted members: Here you can view the list of users who have accepted your “express interest” request or those whose “express interest” request has been accepted by you.
Blocked members: Here you can view list of users you have blocked.
Change password: Here you can change your current password to a new password.
Extend/Renew membership: Here you can renew your membership when it is about to expire or within 15 days after expiry. On renewing your plan, you will get renewal discount depending on your previous plan.
Report abuse: Here you can directly send us complaint against any user who has shown inappropriate behavior towards you. Simply provide us with his/her profile ID and type your complaint. Your complaint will be taken seriously and action will be taken against the abuser.
Delete account: If you have found your life partner through or otherwise, it’s your moral responsibility to immediately delete your account. Space has been provided to share your success story with us. If you want to temporarily deactivate your account, contact our customer care executive.

Search partner: As a registered user you will be eager to search for suitable profiles to choose a perfect life partner. You can do so by using search tool which enables you to filter out profiles as per your set criteria. Remember, more stringent the criteria you set for search, lesser will be number of displayed profiles. When you will login your account, you will be able to perform quick search, advanced search and search by ID.

Quick search will be based on: Age limits, religion and residence.

If you want to be more specific about your choice of partner, you can use advanced search. It will include search based on :
(1) Basic information: (a) Age (b) Religion (c) Marital status (d) Surname  (e) Residing in
(f) Citizenship
(2) Cultural background : (a) Birthplace (b) Mother tongue (c) Family type
(3) Physical Appearance: (a) Height (b) Disabilities
(4) Social background: (a) Education level (b) Profession (c)Salary (d)Diet (e)Smoking
Search by profile ID: It’s another search option where the user can search a profile simply by entering its profile ID.

Search results can be sorted as recently registered profiles first.

When the search is performed, a list of profiles is displayed as per the search criteria. As a registered user, you can view listed profiles in detail, including their partner preferences. The profiles will be identified by profile ID and surnames e.g. Mr.Bhat or Ms. Lone. Photographs will be visible only if the user has allowed (in photo setting) that his/her photographs be visible to all registered users. Otherwise, they will be visible only when interest is accepted. However, full name and contact numbers will be visible to registered user, only after interest request has been accepted.

Against each listed profile, there will be three action buttons (a) Message (b) Express interest (c) Block

You can send messages to any profile even before interest request is accepted.

If you get interested in some profile, you can send an interest request to initiate the contact by pressing “express interest” button. If that person likes your profile, he/she can accept your interest request. Now you will be able to see each other’s full name, photographs and contact number. But if the other person is not interested in your profile, he/she can decline your interest request .The number of interest requests you can receive from other users is unlimited but you can send only limited number of interest requests per month. This number will depend on your selected registration plan (see in FAQs).

Pressing“block” button will mean that the blocked profile won’t be able to find you in search results.

Contact: After liking a particular profile and interest request been accepted by either party, the final step would be to contact the person whom you seriously consider your potential life partner. Naturally you would want to know more about the person and interact to know their views about important issues of life to have an idea of your mutual compatibility. You can contact him/her by following ways:
(1) Messaging: You can communicate via messaging to ask relevant questions from the other person. Please don’t be vague in your conversation.
(2) Phone:You can contact members/their guardians directly via phone on their given contact numbers.
(3) Arrange a meeting: After you have done preliminary investigations of a profile, you can arrange a face-to-face meeting with the person at some suitable place (kindly read safety tips). We strongly recommend doing so under the supervision of your family in accordance with cultural ethics of Kashmir.

  We hope that by now you have fairly well understood the working of

You may also read FAQs for more clarifications. However, if you still have any doubt or query, feel free to email us (see help section) or directly call our customer care executive on phone numbers provided.

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